Golden Rule

And as ye would that men should do to you, do ye also to them likewise. (Luke 6:31 KJV)

The Golden Rule, or ethic of reciprocity, is found in many ancient philosophies. What makes it different here in Luke is found after following verses telling us how to treat others, including the standard we need to use to measure – the one we set:

Give, and it shall be given unto you; good measure, pressed down, and shaken together, and running over, shall men give into your bosom. For with the same measure that ye mete withal it shall be measured to you again. (Luke 6:38 KJV)

Yep – we each set the measure of what we receive based on what we give.  If we give harshness, sarcasm, corruption, that’s what we’ll get back in good measure! Most of us (I know I do) seldom think about what we’re giving out, we’re just trying to get a job done.  Even with the family we love, we can speak sharply – then be hurt when we get jabbed back.

So, along with the standard we set with measurement, we can also set the standard for what we give – and can expect in return.  Of course, it’s another Bible verse:

Finally, brethren, whatsoever things are true, whatsoever things are honest, whatsoever things are just, whatsoever things are pure, whatsoever things are lovely, whatsoever things are of good report; if there be any virtue, and if there be any praise, think on these things. (Philippians 4:8 KJV)

Yep again – we each set the standards for what is given to us. Wait!  What was that you whispered?  You tried that and what was returned was hurtful to the point you never want to see that person again.  Obviously they are not familiar with either one of these Bible verses.

Have they seen them in you?  That might make a difference, right?  If they observe both of these verses in your life, might their reaction be different?  Have you tried that?

Try a small experiment.  Think of someone, connected to you through family or work, that has not responded to kindness.  Are you willing to spend a bit of time with them?  Not to see what you can get in return, but just to exchange a bit of chitchat, moving toward a place where sharing is possible.  Didn’t work in the past, and there’s no sign it will in the future?  Isn’t it worth the effort?  Not to change them – that won’t work.  Not even to change yourself.  Just keep the subject matter within Philippians 4:8.

Then watch for the return – what is given unto you; good measure, pressed down, and shaken together, and running over.  It’s worth it!!